I will get back into dating when I lose those 10 pounds...
I will go back to school when my life is...
If my resume was updated I could look for another job as soon as...
This is definitely the year to get my finances in check when...
As another New Year approaches you have goals and visions in place - but somehow you are still unhappy.
The reason is we haven't worked on the root cause of our unhappiness.
You can set all the goals for yourself but if you don't get to the core of what is really going on deep down you will always be chasing your dreams.
Does this all sound familiar to you? Telling yourself year after year, this year I will get it done?
Is it fear?
Maybe it's lack of self-confidence?
Do you need to find your Voice?
Fear that when we go back to get that degree we won't get the grades we want, or getting our finances in order we might find out we are spending way too much on groceries, dry cleaning, or eating out?
Let's think about it in another way instead of being fearful, or lack of self-confidence. What if you thought about as an opportunity to make a difference in your life? Make a CHANGE in your life? In your family's life?
Take any one of the examples above or add your own of what is making you fearful these days. Ask yourself these questions...
1 year from now how do I want to feel? Empowered, confident, determined.
5 years from now how do I want to feel? Freedom thinker, persistent, decisive.
If you are ready to think in a "forward" direction - to dream, even if it's a little teeny, weeny baby step dream. Maybe you're in a mid-life funk? Send me a note and let me know how I can help you bust out once and for all with some amazing life coaching. Start 2018 with the best you can be. The time is now!
Life is too short to feel unhappy, besides Life is Happening Right Now!
Hugs and Happy New Year to you all!
Your Positive Life Coach